Don't tell us our energy is dropping, teach us how to recharge and direct our energy properly.
Don't tell us we were wrong, tell us what our mistakes were so we can correct them, learn and not do them again.
Don't tell us we were good or acceptable or good for a first try or not bad or there's a lot to work on but for now it's ok, teach us how to be better.
Just don't patronise us. If we really made a mistake, don't soften on us. We deserve whatever there is because of that mistake and we deserve to learn too. Just don't go all defensive and harsh and pointing your fingers at us when we don't even realise our mistake. If you want to scold us fine, but we want to know too what exactly is the problem with us.